Monday, 18 November 2024

Joyeux Anniversaire

This is another card I made before we lost Gadi. The recipient turned 75 in May 2022. His daughter-in-law asked me to make a birthday card for him. Hobbies include photography, plays, concerts, art exhibitions, Judaica (her father-in-law has a spice box collection) and travel, she wrote to me. That long list was whittled down to a camera, an aeroplane, and something to represent modern art!
I showed my customer's father-in-law with a camera in his hands. There is an aeroplane behind him, to represent his love for travel, and also some framed art and a sculpture. I added a 75 to the card too, to mark his age. Next to him is a spice box. Spice boxes are used at the havdalah ceremony performed at the end of Shabbat, to separate the holy day from the weekday (havdalah means "separation"). The ceremony involves lighting a special candle with several wicks, blessing a cup of wine, and smelling sweet spices. The spice box is passed around and everyone smells the aromatic spices as a way to uplift the spirit since the end of Shabbat is experienced as a sad moment.
My customer sent the card to France, where her father-in-law lives, thus the greeting "Joyeux Anniversaire", or "Happy Birthday". The traditional Hebrew blessing "120 עד" directly below means "May you live until 120". The Torah states that Moses died a the age of 120, at which age "his eye had not dimmed, and his vigour had not diminished". (Deuteronomy 34:7). The blessing therefore carries the implication that the receiver should have a long and fulfilled life.
My customer was very happy with the card. "I've been wanting to have an excuse to order a card from you for ages. Love your work!" she wrote to me.
In January 2023 another customer wrote to me and said "Unbelievably my uncle Joe is 100 in 3 weeks... it feels like the card is very important. So if you feel like making him one, I'd love that." She told me that Uncle Joe likes coffee and chocolate.
I decided to show him holding a big birthday cake with lots of candles on it, though I didn't add 100! A hot cup of coffee is in front of him and some yummy chocolate behind him. A big red 100 marks his very special age.
"I absolutely love the card" my customer wrote to me, then sent me this wonderful photo of her and Uncle Joe together.
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14 comments:

Catherine said...

This was really interesting to read. I'd never heard of a havdalah ceremony before.

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hels said...

Your spice box is beautiful. I still treasure the one I inherited from my Russian Savta and use every week.

Kim Carberry said...

What a lovely card! You have included so many details to represent your customer's father in law.
Oh wow! A card for a 100 year old! That is amazing! So lovely to see the recipient. x

Carol @Comfort Spring Station said...

Turning a 100 is marvelous. Lovely cards #MMBC

Laura @ Our Grand Lives said...

You are so talented, Lisa, and so thoughtful! I love the way you weave so many personal touches into your work! Visiting via
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Lillian "sognafaret" said...

Thank you for vissiting my blog. I got a translation button on the right side of the blog in netversjon. Take kare.

Tamar SB said...

The camera is so adorable!

VeggieMummy said...

Wonderful cards and I love the idea of the spice box. Uncle Joe does not look 100! Maybe it's all the chocolate; I can only hope! :O) xx

Joanne said...

Both of the cards you made are fabulous but oh wow! 100?! That is a huge milestone. How fun to get be a small part of that celebration.

Melynda@Scratch Made Food! said...

Your cards are so personal, I love them! I followed the link and read about Gadi, it is so hard to lose someone you love, but especially of their choice. I lost my father-in-law many years ago. One of my hardest days ever. Take care.

Angela Webster said...

Those are both impressive ages to reach, your cards put a lovely personalised touch to the occasion. I'm just wondering what on earth you buy for a 100 year old!

gluten Free A_Z Blog said...

Your personalized cards bring so much joy to others. I love all the details for each person. 100!! wow!!!

Jennifer Wise said...

These are amazing! I really love the camera around his neck--so detailed! :) Visiting from The Crazy Little Love Birds linkup.

Jayne said...

Beautiful cards Lisa. You've captured all of their favourite things perfectly!
100 years, wow! What an amazing milestone.
Loved reading about havdalah too, always learn something new when I pop over here. :) xx