Sunday, 12 April 2026

A Grandma Who Loves Gardening, Reading, and Games

On Thursday morning, the last day of Passover, after 40 days of war, we woke to a ceasefire. The quiet felt unfamiliar. No planes overhead. No sirens. Not even the usual blaring alerts the moment I stepped into the shower. It was almost unsettling in its stillness.
And yet, I can't help but wonder - is this really what we hope for after everything we've been through? Homes lie shattered. Too many lives have been lost. And despite it all, the Iranian regime remains a global threat, continuing its pursuit of nuclear capability while tightening its grip on one of the world’s most vital waterways, the Strait of Hormuz.
We find ourselves standing in the wreckage, somehow expected to return to normal after more than a month of living on edge, in a reality that feels anything but ordinary.
Soon, Israel will shift from this fragile quiet into remembrance. The country will mark Yom Hazikaron, the day we remember Israel's fallen soldiers and victims of terrorism. Since losing Gadi, this day has become deeply personal for me, and I can no longer make the emotional transition to Yom Ha'atzmaut, Independence Day, which begins the following evening, the moment Memorial Day ends.
And still, despite everything, I return to my cards. With paper and glue and careful hands, I keep creating. It is my way of holding on and, in some small way, moving forward.

This card request followed soon after the extra-large 80th birthday card I designed for another special grandma, and the briefs for the two projects were strikingly similar. Both grandmas, it seems, enjoy gardening, so once again I started with a background of a garden and shrubs. This grandma, Vicki, was turning 85. She has 5 grandchildren and, as well as gardening and flowers, she enjoys reading and board games.  
My customer wanted her children's names incorporated into the flowers, which I arranged into girls and boys for visual balance. I also checked which board games grandma enjoys and learned it’s backgammon, cards, and Rummikub.
I chose to depict grandma sitting at a garden table, a Rummikub rack before her and a tile poised in her hand. Next to her sits a small pile of books, waiting to be read. In the background, I added the requested flowers, along with a plant pot and trowel. Finally, a large 85 marks her age.
Her daughter, my customer, was delighted with the card!

18 comments:

eileeninmd said...

Hello Lisa
Your homemade cards are wonderful, what a pretty birthday card for Grandma Vicki. Take care, enjoy your day and the week ahead.

EricaSta said...

She seems younger! Happy Birthday too... and thank you very much for sharing your artful card at MosaicMonday

Greetings by Heidrun ❤️

MELODY JACOB said...

The stillness of a ceasefire after such long days of worry must be incredibly surreal and heavy. It is completely understandable that you find it difficult to transition from the deep sorrow of Memorial Day to the celebration of Independence Day, especially with your personal loss. Creating these beautiful cards seems like such a meaningful way to process everything and find a bit of peace in the middle of the wreckage.

Vicki’s 85th birthday card is absolutely wonderful and so full of thoughtful, personal details. The way you balanced the grandchildren’s names in the flowers and added the Rummikub tiles is just brilliant. It is clear that your hands and heart are finding a way to keep moving forward, one beautiful creation at a time.

Kim Carberry said...

The ceasefire must have been such a relief but the quiet must feel so strange. Sending love and hugs. It's good that after everything you have your cards to go back to.
What a sweet card for the special grandma.

jabblog said...

The stillness must be strange after so many weeks of alarm and fear. It is a hard time of year for you and I'm sure the creativity and imagination you put into your handmade cards must help you. Gadi looked such a lovely boy - I am so sorry.

Carol On The Lake said...

Happy Belated Birthday! I hope you enjoyed your day. Great card! #MMBC

hels said...

Grandma looks healthy and peaceful on her 85th birthday.
Cards, board games and gardening keep the mind alert!

Joanne said...

Even before reading your description I thought that was a Rummikub rack! I sure hope the ceasefire holds.

Veronica Lee said...

Your cards are always so thoughtful and beautifully made. Grandma Vicki’s birthday card is such a sweet design, with all her favorite things included. The ceasefire must have brought some relief, though I can imagine the quiet feels unusual after so much tension. Thank you for sharing both your heartfelt words and your lovely art. Hugs.

Laura @ Our Grand Lives said...

There are so many thoughtful details added to your cards and this one is filled with treasures galore! Your cards are a blessing for all who receive them, Lisa. I will be thinking of you during the coming week and sending warm wishes for peace and comfort!

Heather{Our Life In a Click} said...

Your cards are stunning works of art!

Melynda@Scratch Made Food! said...

Lisa, may peace find you soon! And stay with you forever. Your cards are little history portraits custom made for each person. I am always amazed at the creativity and the skill at which you put it all together!

Soma @ InkTorrents.com said...

I do hope the ceasefire holds. Creativity certainly helps with finding some form of solace. You always make such wonderful and happy cards, Lisa. It's really lovely.

-Soma

Maria Rineer said...

The attention to detail in your card is amazing! What a wonderful card to mark this woman's milestone birthday. I hope the ceasefire holds and that you and your loved ones remain safe...

Linda's Relaxing Lair said...

This is beautiful, Lisa.

Amy Johnson said...

I really still pray and hope that the Iranian people will be set free from that awful regime. Your card is adorable! I love the gardening theme and the names written on the flowers.

Sallie (FullTime-Life) said...

I appreciate your taking time and effort to show us the human side of living through this horrible war. I hope for lasting peace and am sorry for our country's part.

VeggieMummy said...

We've just got back off holiday and I am catching up with my favourite blogs! I haven't really seen the news whilst we've been away, so am not able to comment on current events. I'm sure I'll catch up soon. In the meantime, I love the card and feel that Vicki and I have much in common - gardening, Rummikub and backgammon are right up my street! xx